Is it "okay" to be a lesbian? I haven't come out yet......?

of course it is ok to come out. Your going to have thousands of haters, but you also have thousands of supporters out here. and we love you lol. you dont have to be all showy about it, i was very shy too in the begining (im bi) and you dont have to shout it off rooftops. it will come up here and there and just state your opinions about yourself and dont let anyone try and tell you different. i mean its hard to say what your experience wil be like because everyone is diff, but you know who you are, and as long as you hold your ground and dont be afraid of confrontation for standing up for who you are inside you will be fine. like lady gaga said, you were born this way baby!!!!!!!!!!! great song!!!!!! lol