My father is taking stuff away...?

Well it souds that your dad is a little (A LOT) effected by his childhood! You and your mom should communicate with him more just to make him fell like he's "involved". You should set down some rules with him (with your mom around) like not to take your laptop,cellphone,camera ect away because you shouldn't be punished for nothing. Not to be mean but you might want to study more to show him your responsable (even though you are). It is a good idea to get some counciling if this is really effecting you. You could have a family counciling if you want to like with you mom if you want her to know how this is really effecting you. You could even invite your dad to show him how you are feeling. HE SHOULD NOT make you think things you don't want to think that is just bad parenting! I totally agree with you :) ! Good luck! :)